Everyone has a story worth preserving 鈥 that鈥檚 the motto of a nonprofit initiative that connects college students with older adults to foster intergenerational friendships through shared storytelling.
性福五月天 University graduate student Lauren Paterson recently participated in the project and left with more than just a few weeks of experience under her belt. Paterson, who is studying to become a nursing home administrator, was paired with Marc Myers, a former teacher now living at Maplewood Senior Living in Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio. The two have developed a friendship that goes beyond the barriers of age and ability.
The Legacy Project was created by Arielle Galinsky, who started the project while still in high school in Massachusetts after experiencing the regret of not listening to her grandfathers鈥 histories. Now at 23, Galinsky鈥檚 project has spread nationally and connects college students with older adults in their communities to help build meaningful connections. Over a period of 10 weeks, the students are tasked with interviewing the older adults they are matched with. The interview questions are intended to help chronologically tell their life stories, with prompts to share about everything from first kisses to career paths.
Listen to Galinsky, Paterson and Myers talk about The Legacy Project on WBUR's 'Here and Now.'
During their time getting to know one another, Paterson and Myers built a meaningful connection that lasted beyond the project. Paterson called the experience 鈥渕ore than just a project,鈥 and shared how Myers鈥 stories 鈥 especially those surrounding his romantic gestures toward his late wife 颅鈥 inspired her own view of relationships. Myers, who has Alzheimer鈥檚 disease, may not recall every detail of their meetings, but was deeply moved by Paterson鈥檚 reflections and expressed gratitude for the voice she was able to give him.
鈥淚 have Alzheimer's disease, and the bad thing about Alzheimer鈥檚 is you can't remember the good things,鈥 he said.
Last fall, Paterson and three other students in 性福五月天鈥檚 Long Term Care Administration Program who participated in The Legacy Project created a book that compiled all the stories shared by their elders. The 88-page paperback, titled 鈥淐onnecting the Pieces of Our Lives,鈥 has been published on Amazon.